Thought this would be helpful – Gary asked me about the best way to create a college list for his daughter, Class of 2018, 97 average and wants to major in (a very popular major).
In this video, I describe the three “Gets”
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I had to do it…
Here are are the top seven lessons about college planning we can learn from Tom Brady and Bill Belichick’s Super Bowl win for the ages last night (Best game EVA!). If you’re a non-sports fan, I apologize, but this piece is more about college planning than football. Here are my lessons from last night:
1. Incredible challenges. The Patriots season, and Superbowl game, was laden with all kinds of obstacles: suspension of superstar quarterbackTom Brady, injuries to key players, a 25 point deficit last night, caused by a fumble, interception and a ridiculously fast and well-prepared Falcons defense. Not to mention history: no quarterback or coach had ever won five Superbowls.
The college process is also full of obstacles: rejections, deferrals, parent-child drama, peer-to-peer drama, less than stellar grades and standardized test scores, bad interviews, missed deadlines, poor guidance and so forth. Junior year to first half of senior year is flat out the MOST challenging time in most middle class kids’ lives.
2.Detractors. The Pats, Brady and Coach Belichick are hated by millions of fans. Pats supporters believe, with some justification, that the commissioner of the NFL also had some kind of weird vendetta against them. Even some of Patriot Nation turned their backs when they learned of Brady, Belichick and owner Robert Kraft’s friendships with President Trump!
College-bound teens face detractors in the form of their fellow teens, and, yes, parents of other teens who root against them. Shocking, I know, but I calls ‘em like I sees ‘em. You may not like or believe this, but many parents and teens are ultra-competitive and a little sneaky or secretive about their tutors, college list and plans. And yes, there’s a lot trash talking, behind the back and, occasionally, in front of the faces (or smart phones) of fellow competitor-applicants.
3. Excuses. The Pats had every reason in the world to have a mediocre season, let alone lose last night: the aforementioned injuries, including the season-ender to the undefendable Rob Gronkowski, the four game suspension, which led to games featuring their 2nd string and 3rd string quarterbacks substituting for Brady.
Even if you hate the Pats, you have to admit that they never made excuses for not performing up to the standards they hoped to achieve. They won three of their four Brady-less games and pulled off one of the greatest comebacks in all sports, ever.
It’s too easy for kids and parents to make excuses in the college planning process: ACT or SAT scores not as high as they should have been because the room was too hot or too cold. Or their tutor didn’t do a good job. Or teachers giving bad grades because they “suck” or dislike the child for some reason. Even when kids or parents miss deadlines to apply or file financial aid forms, because “No one told them.” It may feel good, temporarily, to blame someone else for underperforming, but it’s not going to get you anywhere.
4. Game Plan. The Pats had a plan for last night’s game. It didn’t look so great when they were down by 25. But they believed in it, were flexible enough to made adjustments, and, most importantly, executed it, little by little, possession by possession.
Here’s a big issue in the college process: It is highly unusual for college-bound teens and their parents to have any semblance of a strategy, or plan. Instead, they focus on tactics, such as loading up on APs, taking the ACT 12 times, haphazardly coming up with a big project to fill up their activity sheet to “look good” on their college applications. These types of tactics are arguably necessary, but lack an overarching, cohesive plan because they ignore fundamental questions such as “What is the goal beyond ‘Getting into a good school,” The definition of a “good school,” applying to a set of schools that compete with one another for the type of student your kid presents, “positioning” your child to enhance his/her candidacy, positioning yourself for the maximum amount of scholarships and financial aid, and more. College-bound families would be smart to stop, take a breath, and do some serious THINKING about what they’re doing, and why.
5. Work ethic. Sports writers have chronicled the insane work ethics of Brady and Belichick over the years. But my guess is that Belichick does not work harder than his peers, I’ve had three or four NFL coaches as clients over the years, and have always been struck by how much time they put in at the office. I’m taking 14-18 hour days, six days a week for nine months.
But I marvel at Brady, whose motivation level is off the charts and unexplainable to a guy like me, considering how much he’s accomplished already and what he has going for him – the championships, the supermodel wife, more money than he can spend, the looks. If anyone should feel entitled to slack off a little, it’s Tommy. Yet he still, at age 39 (!), works as hard as any player in the NFL and has a mind blowing off-season routine of diet (green shakes, avocado ice cream) and exercise for hours per day. Even if you can’t stand him, you have to respect his burning desire to be the best he can be.
Many kids have far more work to do than we parents did, growing up. But if you’re applying to a bunch of competitive colleges, your competition is working at least as hard as you. So if it means taking the AP class instead of honors, or doing one more practice ACT instead of messing around on Instagram or Snapchat, make that “sacrifice.” (Incidentally, Brady was a terrific student at U Michigan, as was his Falcons counterpart Matt Ryan at Boston College.)
6. Faith. Reportedly, there wasn’t any panic in the Patriots’ locker room at halftime, when they were down 18 and Atlanta’s defense appeared impregnable. Disappointment, to be certain, but no yelling, crying or suicide attempts. Instead, they had faith in themselves, which was the backbone of their resilience and victory.
Many kids today are not resilient. Frankly, a lot of us parents coddle them and try to shield them from adversity, to give them “the best.” It’s not just parents, at least directly, grade inflation in most high schools is rampant, for example. Everyone has a 92 average an is in National Honor Society.
But this is counter-productive. Predictably, this leads to kids having a lack of confidence, and faith, in themselves, because they’ve never overcome any meaningful obstacles. Even the slightest bit of negative feedback throws them for a loop. My message to kids, and families, is that it’s ok to feel like sh*t if something doesn’t go your way, but trust yourself and keep working. EVERYTHING will work out, so have faith.
7. Coaching. Yes, the Patriots work hard in practice, but I doubt that they work harder than most NFL teams. To win, it’s about working hard AND smart – i.e. under the eyes of an experienced coach.
The most successful college applicants get coached through the process, too. Lest you think this is a plug for me and our firm, it’s not. Coaching can come in all sorts of sizes and shapes – guidance counselors (there are plenty of great ones), parents, even college consultants who are not named Andy and didn’t attend the same college as the greatest NFL coach of all time, “Bells,” as we referred to him back at Wesleyan. Just kidding, he’s a wee bit older than I (but you just KNOW that someone must have called him that!).
The bigger point is that if you work hard, but dumb, you’ll fail. Get help from someone with a track record of success that is qualified.
If you are interested in talking to us about our college coaching or other services, we are filling up with Class of 2018 families but still have availability. You can book a free College Strategy Session here (regularly $249) because I’m all giddy about the Patriots and am in a celebratory mood.
Have a great day, God knows I am!
– Andy “Not Too Old To Be Immature About Sports” Lockwood
P.S. The link for non-clients to book a chat is:
Hi ho, fellow citizen!
I was just chatting with my friends Anderson Cooper (“Coop,” to his friends), Wolf Blitzer (“Blitz”) and Megyn Kelly (“K-Money”) about the upcoming election and they made an interesting point:
I mean, really, if you’re concerned with paying for college, or getting into college, it doesn’t really matter who the president is to you or 99% of the families I know.
Hillary won’t make college free for anyone, because Congress won’t allow it.
I have no idea The Donald’s thoughts on college are, if he even has them.
My point? There is only one person who can affect how much you pay for college.
(No, it’s not me. Did you think I was going “there?”)
Here’s a hint: it’s the guy/gal staring back at you when you brush your teeth in the morning.
Your best bet is to arm yourself with powerful insider strategies about the legal “loopholes” that, if taken advantage of, can help you qualify for more grants and scholarships than you thought possible.
You also need to stay away from deadly, eligibility-sabotaging “landmines” that can rob you of the financial aid you deserve – and need – to send your kids to their top choice colleges!
Don’t rely on empty campaign promises to take care of your college woes – take matters into your own hands!
Make it a point to come to one of our workshops this Wednesday or Thursday – assuming the world doesn’t end by then – to learn how you can slash college costs, even if you think you make too much or cannot possibly qualify!
I’m conducting free workshops in Garden City Park on Wednesday, November 9th and Northport on Thursday, November 10th. Here are all the registration details directly from me (not via WikiLeak, the Russians or an Anthony Weiner text):
If you have a Class of 2018 child, and are stressed out and uptight about how you’ll possibly afford the high cost of college, here is what you will discover:
You can register here. Please bring a friend or two who is uptight and stressed about paying for college. As long as we have room, they’re welcome to come and they’ll love you forever for thinking of them!
-Andy “The Unelectable” Lockwood
P.S. So I wasn’t REALLY hangin’ with Coop, Blitz or K-Money. But I’ve been seeing so much of them on TV in my family room lately sometimes it’s hard to remember that we’re not actually “friends.”
If you come to one our workshops this week, you’ll get so much valuable, free information about how to qualify for gi-normous college discounts that you’ll probably think of me as your new bestie!
When I speak to parents about college planning “loopholes” and “landmines,” one of the most interesting topics (judging from the questions I get) is how to negotiate with colleges.
I’m speaking tonight in Dix Hills in detail about this, but I wanted to quickly share my 5 steps for successfully negotiating with a college:
If you want more of the “411” on negotiations/appealing and other college planning strategies, come on by tonight at the Half Hollow Hills Library!
Other topics to be covered:
Sign up now, we still have 7 seats left as of this morning. Bring a friend who could use this info, just forward this email
-Andy “Art Of The Financial Aid Deal” Lockwood
P.S. I know, I know, it’s not easy to pull yourself away from the latest Wikileak bombshell scheduled for release tonight. But I recommend you come anyway. Chances are you’ll be able to catch up on the news after our workshop.
Have you been to your high school’s annual College Night meeting yet?
Pearl went last night pre-debate (and pre rant), and is going to report on her experience today on College Talk Tuesday, [12:00]-[12:30] ET.
Spoiler alert – she was not too surprised at what was said…
But she was shocked by what was NOT said!
She’ll share her thoughts today.
We are hosting our own Virtual College Night this Thursday on College Success For Less, live and barely scripted! You’ll have the chance to ask us your questions about financial aid.
We’ll rerun the recording throughout the weekend too (sign up for both live and recorded.)
Note: This will be your last chance for a deep dive on the financial aid and college planning process before the FAFSA is released October 1st.
Please pass this information along to other parents!
Andy “Just The Facts” Lockwood
My Fellow Humans –
As the presumptive nominee, I will be delivering a landmark speech* that will outline my platform, including:
This event is tomorrow morning, hope you can make it, details below.
It’s a smallish (non-YUGE) venue, 20 slots (featuring terrific folks of all sorts of backgrounds, orientations and ethnicities, thank you very much!) are already spoken for between our registration page and the LI Achievement Center’s:
– Andy “Not Invited To Cleveland Or Philly” Lockwood
P.S. I will not be working off a teleprompter, so no script – anything goes! Bring your questions!
*Or saying the same ol’ stuff I always say! 🙂
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The new student loan rates are here! (Blech.)
Interest rates are one thing, fees and other terms are another. I will be teaching a class on this stuff sometime before end of the summer. Join our mailing list if you want this info: CollegeSuccessBulletin.com